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ADHD Household Maintenance Made Easy

I don’t know anyone, ADHD or otherwise, who hasn’t had some difficulty in learning household maintenance. Cleaning does not come easily to everyone, and can be especially challenging to those of us with ADHD! What can seem like a simple job to one person can seem like an overwhelming series of complicated tasks to us, and knowing where to start can be the hardest part!

The following tips represent what I have learned over the years about ADHD household maintenance made easy. The trick is to make cleaning simpler and easier, and incentivizing the tasks. Let me know how these work for you:


I don’t know about you, but when I notice a dirty bathroom sink or a mess on the floor but getting the items I need to clean it up requires making a trip downstairs, my next thought is, “I should definitely clean that up… later!” It’s already too tempting easy to avoid housework. Remove this excuse by keeping everything you need to tidy an area right there.  I have also found that easy-to-use products are much more likely to be used by reluctant helpers (and myself).

Keep a supply of one-step cleaners like Clorox Disinfecting Wipes and Glass Wipes in various obvious locations in your home. I also save money by buying generic melamine foam magic cleaning erasers in bulk. They work wonders on walls, tiles, cabinets doors, windowsills… almost everywhere! In each under-sink cabinet in our house, I keep disinfecting surface wipes, glass wipes, a scrubbing sponge, no-scrub bath and shower cleaner, a small duster and pan, and small trash bags. This way, everything necessary to tidy most spaces is within reach and can be easily grabbed in the cleaning caddy under the sink.  No excuses!


This isn’t a lecture about making yourself clean regularly. We all know we should probably have some sort of regular schedule for cleaning (and everything else), but I’ve never had much luck with schedules! I have also never been able to stay on top of my shopping, so I use Amazon Subscribe & Save. Now I don’t have to even think about buying most stuff!


Seriously, my grocery trips are now mostly fresh fruits and vegetable, meats, and special stuff we want for particular meals during the week. Everything we need for lunchboxes, our household supplies like toilet paper and razors,  even the regular pantry stock is on a set schedule to appear when it’s about to run out. Genius!

I prefer this because after one session setting it up online, it was done. Once a month now, I get an email from Amazon reminding me of what is about to be shipped (they send everything together in one free shipment). At that point, I can alter the order if, say, I realize that I don’t more need olive oil  or shampoo yet.  I can easily adjust the frequency of one or two items. After a while, everything gets set up perfectly.

PLUS, you get big discounts because, in addition to the cost-saving for buying with Amazon and buying in bulk, you can use instant coupons on Amazon with a single click (no clipping!), AND the more items you have in your monthly subscription delivery, the more you save!


ADHD Household Maintenance Made Easy - 6 Tips for making housecleaning easier. Plus: FREE downloadable PDFs to help your ADHD kids avoid cleaning overwhelm! from thedistractedmom.comTo hear my kids, you’d think they don’t know howto clean. In fairness, when I was a kid, I also felt lost when I was asked to clean a room or do any task that involved more than one step. If your kids have ADHD, they likely have certain executive functioning deficits that actually make these tasksmore difficult than for other children. Troubles with working memory, planning, prioritization, and organization mean that you won’t get good results with just suggesting they “clean the bathroom.” Instead, break it down.

In our house, I keep a simple chronological list of the steps it takes to clean each area. This is posted on the inside of the under-sink cabinet door in the bathroom, right next to the cleaning caddy. In the kitchen, I have a similar list posted near the kitchen sink. There is another list in each of their bedrooms. And yup, we have one in the dining and living areas, too.

These lists are helpful for spouses and significant others, too! We don’t all grow up knowing how to clean! Creating a list with easy-to-follow steps also visually breaks down what can seem like a big task into much smaller, more do-able jobs. You may get much better results from everyonein the family this way!

  • Download my Cleaning Lists as a PDF and print them to use in your home or use them as a basis to create your own lists! They can also be laminated to allow kids to write on them and mark off tasks as they complete them. These lists are made to be pretty simple so they don’t seem overwhelming for kids, but you can edit them as needed.


Another difficulty in getting kids to help is that cleaning isn’t fun or interesting! Add to that the issue that ADHD kids and adults both have problems with task initiation and motivation! Russel Barkley, PhD, has written that internal forms of motivation are often weak at sustaining goal-motivated behavior in ADHD individuals and that external sources of motivation should be used as reinforcement instead.

You have to identify what motivates your kids. For some families, and depending on the age of the kids, allowance for chores may be appropriate. In my house, I trade tokens for screen time when the kids do housework. Each token earned is worth 35 minutes of screen time for TV or gaming, and despite some occasional grumbles about it, this system has got my seven-year-old scrubbing the bathroom without me even asking!  You might reward your kids with another special privilege or quality time doing a favorite activity of theirs. Get creative!


Plan ahead and set up collection spots where “stuff” tends to accumulate: Make sure you have a laundry basket in every bathroom and bedroom of the house. I suggest an upright basket because they take up less floor space. Don’t allow laundry to collect on the floor. You can even try a new rule: Laundry that is found on the floor will not be returned for a few weeks. This will make you unpopular at first, but it will be effective (or save you the energy of washing so much laundry, at the very least!).

Keep a toy bin for each child downstairs. When we tidy up, their toys and books and small items get put in each of the kids’ bins. It’s their responsibility to put that stuff away. I threaten that I’ll start throwing  things away if I run out of room in their bins, but this hasn’t happened yet. (In reality,  I’d probably hide it in the basement for a month or two.) Other than what fits there, the kids’ toys do not stay downstairs. The exception is the shelf of board games that we keep in the dining room. This makes a huge difference in how easy it is to keep our space clean.


The last tip is to prevent creating overwhelming situations for yourself and the family byminimizing. Nothing makes me feel so crazy and stressed as when the kitchen is scattered with dirty dishes, the bathroom floor is covered in piles of discarded clothes, the living room is full of game pieces and miscellaneous toys and books, and “clean” laundry waits in a pile on the sofa.(Not that this is ever the situation! Bwhahaha!)

Don’t let this happen! Your environment has a major effect on your mood. Being surrounded by chaos like this will send you in a downward spiral, making you feel less and less motivated. Then the problem will get worse until you finally snap and clean like an angry, possessed person! (Not that I’ve ever done that!)

Try having fewer clothes in circulation. Weed through and get rid of what you don’t really LOVEto wear! If you really want to get radical, have fewer dishes in use. Kids will use every dish in the house before they will bother washing one. But if there are only a half dozen plates, bowls, and cups… well, there will be a lot less to wash and people are forced to start taking responsibility for cleaning things to use. Not only do we not own many dishes, but we buy ours at Goodwill. That way, it’s no big deal if something gets broken when kids are learning to wash!  :)

The final minimizing tip: start “tossing” instead of “organizing.” You can spend as much time and money as you like rearranging all your stuff, but the best way to make you house easier to keep clean is to own less stuff!  When you walk around tidying, consider throwing things away before you put them away. I’m amazed at how much stuff I try to find a “home” for without thinking “do I really want to keep this junk?” Papers, small tokens, toys from fast food restaurants… all into the recycling bins!  It will free you.

So get started! And let me know how these suggestions work for you!

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